March and Other Hard Months
You know that balance of joy and sadness? I'm currently there. My only daughter turns 18 in a few weeks but my mom's birthday is three...
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Tamika
Dec 7, 20223 min read
"How Is Your Heart?"
I've managed to get through one of the most traumatic, emotionally draining years that I've ever had (I will share the specifics in...
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Tamika
Dec 31, 20214 min read
Everything Must Change.
If you've followed my journey, you may have noticed that I've been silent since my 40th birthday, which was 13 months ago. That's because...
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Tamika
Nov 20, 20202 min read
2 years...and 40 candles.
I've come to refer to the month of November as "Bipolar Season". I managed to get through the second anniversary of my mom's passing with...
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Tamika
Oct 8, 20202 min read
The Cost of Healing
Here's what I know for sure: death is inevitable and so is grief; however, suffering is optional. When I made the choice to work towards...
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Tamika
Apr 21, 20202 min read
Bereaved and Quarantined
Here's my current situation: I'm sheltered in place with my family, which allows for very little time alone (except for my daily-and...
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Tamika
Mar 17, 20202 min read
Time To Take A Deep Breath.
As news outlets give us round-the-clock coverage of this pandemic, it's very easy to be affected mentally. Cancellation of events,...
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Tamika
Feb 18, 20202 min read
Shhh...I'm Sitting With My Grief Right Now.
You may have noticed that I spent January/early February pretty much off the grid. I'm not sure if it was the weather, or the fact that...
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Tamika
Dec 24, 20191 min read
(Try to) Have Yourself A Merry Little Christmas...
I'm gonna share the pep talk that I've been giving myself since December 1st: You're gonna get through it. You can't wish the holidays...
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Tamika
Dec 10, 20191 min read
'Tis the Season (Struggle).
Now that the holiday season is in full swing, I wanted to send a reminder to those who may find this time of year to be emotionally...
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Tamika
Nov 19, 20193 min read
Birthdays, Grief, and Gratitude
Once you experience a significant loss, special days don't seem quite as special. It's hard to get into the spirit of holidays or events...
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Tamika
Nov 6, 20192 min read
Death to Grief Comparisons!!!
As if the weight of grief wasn't enough, I've now come to the realization that I will also have to deal with grief comparisons. Ugh. ...
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Tamika
Nov 1, 20192 min read
It's Happening.
Anyone who knows me knows that I'm a planner. I plot things out in great detail. Color-coded calendars, all of that. I make lists for my...
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Tamika
Oct 29, 20191 min read
Self-care is necessary!
Grief can be both mentally and physically draining- be intentional about taking care of YOU! This morning, I recognized that I was in...
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Tamika
Oct 14, 20191 min read
How To Grieve And Still Keep Your Friends
Always remember that your personal loss/experience doesn’t grant you a “pass” with most people. Healing and heart work may sometimes...
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Tamika
Oct 2, 20191 min read
The Life of the Party
Missing my favorite lady a little more today. Decided to take the long way home, roll down the window, and play one of her faves as...
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Tamika
Sep 25, 20191 min read
THE Season.
It’s Fall. As much as I’ve always loved this time of year, I can’t help but be reminded that everything changed during this season. Last...
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Tamika
Sep 5, 20191 min read
Let It Hurt For Awhile.
If you grew up in the late 90’s, you were probably familiar with the musical genius of LaShawn Daniels, whether you realized it or not....
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Tamika
Aug 31, 20191 min read
Lessons in the Middle of My Season
This time last year, God gave me the green light to share a bit about the season I was in. Up until this point, I had been dealing with...
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